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Signs of Death
Our bodies began to signal when death is near. You may find that your loved one is less alert, confused, or restless. They may pull at bed covers or have visions of people and places that are not present. As death nears they may be more withdrawn and want to spend time alone. Allow them to do so as they may be mentally preparing for the end of their life. There may be a decrease in thirst or hunger. It’s important to not force food or drink. You can give then juice, ice chips, or water and keep lips moist with glycerin swabs or lip balm. As muscles relax, there may be a loss of control over bladder or bowels. Disposable pads can help to keep them clean and dry. Circulation begins to decrease which may cause the skin to become bluish in color and cool to the touch. Keep them comfortable with blankets but avoid electric blankets or heating pads.
Many have spoken of a “death rattle.” Dying patients emit rattling or gurgling sounds in their breathing as the breath becomes irregular and shallow. Turning your loved one to the side and repositioning pillows behind the back and beneath the head can help them to breathe easier. Finally, there may be involuntary movement or a loss of reflexes in the legs and arms. Your physician can provide you with additional signs that will help you to prepare for the final moments.
When Death Comes
Even when death is expected, you may feel shocked. You can prepare for the practical aspects of death but there is no avoiding the emotions that you will feel. Allow others to help and support you. Caregivers may have become accustomed to being strong and self sufficient but you too need support. Utilize all the resources that are offered and available to you.
Allow friends and family members to assist in notifying people of your loved one’s death. Accept help in planning the funeral arrangements.
Many caregivers fall ill following the death of their loved one. You may have neglected your own health while providing care. Additionally the emotional stress of death weakens your immune system making you more susceptible to illness.
Caregivers may find it difficult to turn their focus inward following death. You may feel selfish for putting your needs first. Find a support network that will help you to work through your grief and bereavement. You may opt for counseling, a grief support group or friends and family that have also endured loss. Above all do not ignore your own needs, for though saddened now, your life will go on.
